August 31, 2009 by Admin
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Hasan A. Yahya, Ph.D
Sexuality was taboo subject for a long time, after Frued’s bold theories it became necessary for scientists to study the subject on scientific bases. Some theories say that sex is the cause of wars between nations, others consider it as normal thing to be experienced. From the beginning of history, man knows sex without regulations. The desire of man discovered women as partner for sexual relief, The Religions, however, have their ethics on sexuality regulated according to laws and sanctions. The famous story about Adam and (Hawwa) Eve’s creation, is considered by many resources as the beginning of sexual relations between male and female. Some resources believe that the apple provided by Iblis (the Satan) is a sign of sex. While sex was prohibited in Heaven, it was necessary for Adam and Eve to have a new home, the earth. So the story of Iblis, the apple, and Eve’s acceptance of the apple (sex) may be true. Arrangements of reproduction created a problem among Adam and Eve’s children. The question was: who married whom? While both the male and female were brother and sister. Some resources say that Eve had different birth for twins every time. They say: the male in the first twin marries the female in the second twin. But they still brother and sister belong to the same parents (Adam and Eve). In any case, the story of Qabil and Habil, as the known names in Islam or Cain and Abel in Old and New Testaments, reblled on their parents order.
Religiously, the story says: . The first time it happened can trace back to the beginning of humankind: Habil and Qabil (Abel and Cain) the two sons of Adam and Hawa’a were required to bring a sacrifice to God. The Koran reminds us the sacrifice was “accepted from one, but not from the other.” (Q.5:27)
The Torah tells us why that was – Habil offered the life of one of his flock. God was pleased with the death of a substitute and so Habil was accepted. However, Qabil was rejected, even though he had brought the produce that he had worked hard to grow. In more details, Torah describes what happened. In process of time it came to pass, that Qabil brought of the fruit of the ground an offering unto the L-RD. [Jewish sources prefer to omit the “O” from the world Lord. ] Abel, also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of the fat thereof. And the L-RD had respect unto Habil and to his offering: But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Qabil was very wroth, and his countenance fell. And the L-RD said unto Qabil, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen?
If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. Moreover, unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him. (Torah Genesis 4.3-5). The result was that Qabil killed his own brother Habil for sexual reason. Because Habil’s pride was wanted by Qabil who refused to marry the assigned pride for him by his father Adam.
Since then, sexuality became a desire to be satisfied by first human beings ever after.
In my book in Arabic “al-Zawaj wal-Jinse fil ‘Alam, Marriage and Sex in the World. I collected several stories about sex experiences in old history as well as modern history. In the series, however in English includes some stories from my book plus other stories I have previously written in English. The series deals with so many concepts related to sexuality, for example, marriage, divorce, sexual relations, polygamy, polygyny, Pigmy, polyandry, honor-killing, group marriage and diseases such as Sifliss, gonorrhea and Aids. Cross cultural norms concerning these concepts are explained through the stories. The series as well as the two books on the subject will contribute to more understanding for sexual relations as a factor in the process of human happiness rather than misery. (673 words) www.hasanyahya.com
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Hasan Yahya is an American Arab scholar, and a professor of sociology. He published 27 plus books and 207 plus articles on sociology, psychology, politics, poetry, IQ Test Measurement and short stories in both Arabic and English. His articles may be found on articlesbase.com, Face book and other internet sites. His books published on Amazon titled: Crescentology: Theory C. of Conflict Management, Lawlaki: Lawlaki Poetry Diwan, 2000 Bayt Min al-Shi’r al-Arabi (from Emri’ al-Qays to Nizar Qabbani) ,Zawjatu al-Sultan, and al-Zawaj fil-‘Alam, all in Arabic.(On Amazon, 2009). His recent activities reflects his talents and knowledge on youtube’s Dr.Yahya Channel TV videos under askdryahya.
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August 31, 2009 by Admin
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It can be a big challenge in a relationship to try to keep sex exciting and fun. Unfortunately the relationship often loses the initial sparks of playful excitement. It then becomes increasingly difficult to resurrect the magic of before.
Is Michael Webb’s ‘500 Lovemaking’ Tips And Secrets” the book to get the love juices flowing again? Here is my evaluation of this book.
After reading the beginning of ‘500 Lovemaking Tips And Secrets’ you’ll find out and completely understand the crucial foundations of the art of passionate lovemaking. It then continues on by enveloping topics like the importance of romance for sex, toys, adult movies and fascinating facts about Kama Sutra. What’s more is that the book talks about the topics like lubrication and it includes 16 completely illustrated sex positions at the end. These are an impressive addition, but the cornerstone of this book is the collection of 539 tips and ideas.
To be honest with you, I really LOVE that you can just take the book, pick a page and have between 8-10 easy readable tips at your disposal. The obvious advantage is that you can use it to let it inspire you or you can use it right away. What’s more is that this means that you don’t have to read through long tedious paragraphs. ‘500 lovemaking tips and secrets’ is written with the practical application of the tips in mind. Any time you’re about to make sweet love with your partner and you’ll need some inspiration; the 539 tips are at your fingertips.
‘500 Lovemaking Tips And Secrets’ is actually a vault of creativity. It covers every topic imaginable, including oral sex tips and fun games to use for foreplay for men as well as women. It also contains ideas to make lovemaking more passionate and exciting. Creative ideas to surprise your partner include for example “Tell your wife you have a gift for her. Drop your pants to reveal a wrapped penis or at least with a bow on it”.
But things don’t stop here, it even contains many creative places to make love that wouldn’t just pop up in anyone’s right mind. Although I wasn’t blown away by every single idea, I’ve found more than enough tips to gently shock my partner.
The tips are shuffled together, which can make the experience somewhat overpowering. I’d suggest to look through the whole book a couple of times and to select some tips and ideas to use instead of reading it at once.
Even though some ideas are somewhat ordinary, it delivers what it promises. And it doesn’t contain any immoral, degrading or perverted ideas to the multitude of so many other sex manuals seem to vow by.
In conclusion, while not all the tips in ‘500 Lovemaking Tips And Secrets’ blew my mind and I would have liked to have seen some more ‘games’, it’s still THE most extensive book on improving lovemaking I’ve ever read. Nothing else is in its league. All in all, I found it very enjoyable to read… and benefit from 
So if you want to make your lovemaking exciting again or even if you just want some tips for more pleasure, then I highly recommend this book for you.
August 30, 2009 by Admin
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We all know that intimacy is a vital part of any successful marriage. Couples want to have the chance to express their love and adoration for one another in every way possible. Obviously lovemaking is one way to do this. Many women come to a point in their marriage where they start to doubt their abilities in the bedroom. They may worry that their husband is losing interest in them and that may lead to his eventually straying. We all see or hear stories each and every day about the famous and not so famous men who cheat on their wives. If you want to keep your relationship spicy there are a few techniques that you can employ that will keep your husband sexually satisfied and wanting only you.
We all know that intimacy encompasses more than what happens behind the closed doors of our bedrooms. If you want to turn up the heat in your relationship you should start by flirting with your husband when he least expects it. Do this by wearing things you know he finds attractive, brush up against him as you pass him in the hallway and unexpectedly reach in to hold his face and kiss him. Men love this type of attention and it makes them feel desired.
Never overlook the power of words. One way to keep your husband sexually satisfied is to tell him how much you want him and how wonderful it is to be with him. Call him up when he’s at work and tell him that you can’t wait for him to come home so you two can be intimate. Write him a note that expresses the same thing and place it on his car seat or tuck it into his lunch box. The goal is to make him feel that you can’t wait to share yourself with him.
When your sex life starts to suffer, your marriage suffers. It’s as simple as that. It’s never too late to rediscover the passion or turn things up a notch in your relationship. Find out what you can do, starting today, to completely transform the intimate relationship you have with your husband from this helpful site.
Most couples struggle with intimacy at some point. They’re either both too tired, too stressed or simply not that interested anymore. It doesn’t have to be that way. If you miss the intimate moments with your husband there is help. Don’t waste one more minute wishing things were different in the bedroom, change it now.
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August 29, 2009 by Admin
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I love girls that know how to give awesome head – It’s just so easy to fall in love with them, they make me feel amazing – and once they make you feel amazing you just connect this to them – this feeling of awesomeness is what they remind you of. It’s a really crazy feeling – you can get turned on just from a sexy look of a woman that knows how to give head.
The problem is that there are so few of them – so little women that give head with passion and love, so little of them that really enjoy giving head and don’t just do it out of a chore or as a “present” – I don’t even date those girls actually. Once you discovere something great it’s hard to look back. After almost two decades of experience I can now almost instantly figure out if a girl gives good or bad or just plane average head. I decided to make it my mission, to teach women how to give better head in my free time and make this little plane of ours a happier place with happier couples.
The first thing you need to do is try to connect with that guy, try giving him head with more emotions and more passion, if you can feel him and his body on a deeper level, then the blow job itself will be a lot more enjoyable – but you may need some time and practice until you can get to that level. You need to change your attitude and the way you view blow jobs in general – stop thinking that you are giving him something – that YOU are giving him pleasure. If you really want to make it pleasureable – then you actually need to start enjoying it, genuinly enjoying it – you get to that by getting better.
Of course you’re not going to enjoy something if you suck at it – but once you get good at something, you naturally start enjoying it a lot more – and THAT is when you’ll actually get good at it.
So my advice is – fake it till you make it. Practice and get better over time. It’s an art – a learnable one. It’s not one of those “some are born with it some are not” things.
I’ll give you 2 simple but effective tips that will instantly improve your skills.
One – Put more pressure on his shaft, don’t be too soft, a lot of girls are too soft and afraid to have a tighter grip around his shaft. His shaft is the hardest and least sensitive part of his penis – but it can give him great pleasure if you stroke it hard and right – so don’t be afraid to be a bit more aggressive. A harder grip will also give him the impression that you’re not that lost and insecure – he want’s a confident girl that knows what she’s doing.
Two – Involve his balls in the game. A blow job is not just about his head and shaft – there is so much more involved. You have to give him head with everything you’ve got, combine everything you have, use tickling, sucking, licking, stroking, dirty talking and you whole body at once, not just your mouth. The art is to make the right combination at the right moments. So as I’ve said – involve his balls, either hold them or just lightly tickle them with your nails.
There is so much more you can learn about giving great head – just keep on searching and you’ll soon be the best he’ll ever have. Good luck and suck with passion,
Jack
Jack is an insane blow job instructor – he teaches women all across the world how to satisfy men and make their relationship happier, stronger and spiced up with great sex. You can learn more from him on his website here.
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August 28, 2009 by Admin
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The best love making techniques are not what you think they would be. Nope, sorry it’s not some wild, kinky or unusual method that I just discovered in a lost ancient Tibetan lovemaking manual that’s never been revealed. It’s really very simple and basic.
- Get to know what pleases your lover.
- Tune into your lover’s needs.
- Know what it is that arouses and pleases you.
- Deepen intimacy.
That’s all there is to it. No technique, method, position or tip is inherently best in and of itself. It is the dynamics of the couple involved, their level of awareness and the depth of their intimacy that impacts this determination the most.
You could read every love making manual in existence and become a master of all love making techniques, but they are irrelevant if you don’t first know where you are going, who you’re going with, what you want to happen and how to get there.
Yes, you can probably bestow at least some pleasure on your partner and yourself with any old technique, but the goal in love making is to satisfy our lover and ourselves as deeply and completely as possible. We want to achieve ultimate fulfillment and enhance the relationship.
There are many different love making techniques to choose from, but if you don’t have awareness of you and your lover’s intricate preferences, then you’re just taking a shot in the dark and settling for mediocre pleasure. What works for one person is not what works for another person. Men and women usually have different preferences.
If you’re in a new relationship with a new lover and you use the love making techniques that your old girlfriend or boyfriend just loved, you could be in for disappointment. Men share a little more similarities in their needs, but women especially have very unique sexual needs What drives one woman mad with desire, could drive another woman just plain mad.
What positions does your lover enjoy? What part of their body is most erogenous? Are they a silent lover or the verbal type? Where does your lover need to touched? What activities do they enjoy the most? What makes their motor run like speed racer? Which type of sex do they prefer the most? What do they dislike the most? When and how do they like to be touched?
Of course, you don’t want to ignore your pleasure or desires either. You’ll want to take your answers to those questions into account as well as a few others. What are you in the mood for during this particular love making session? Would you like something tender, loving and romantic or are you feeling wild, kinky and animalistic.
How do you get to know your lovers needs and what makes them aroused?
1. You ask.
Many couples have difficulty communicating what it is they enjoy and need sexually. Encourage your partner to share their needs and preferences with you. Let them know it’s important to you to pleasure them. Ask them straight out – does this feel good? – what do you need? – do you like this? – where do you need touched? Share your needs and preferences with them as well.
2. Pay attention while making love.
How do they breathe? How do they respond to each touch and act. What are they saying? What noises are they making? You can learn a great deal about your lover by simply paying attention to these details. Read their cues and adjust accordingly.
When you engage in the two practices above, intimacy naturally ensues. Once you know what it is that you and your lover need for the deepest pleasure then you will discover a variety of best love making techniques. What is best for one couple may not be the case for another. It depends on the unique needs of each couple.
When you and your partner have deep awareness of what it is that you both need and desire, then any technique you use can become the best love making technique. You’ll have the benefit of more pleasurable lovemaking, a more satisfying relationship, deeper intimacy and you’ll be viewed as a great lover.
Do you feel like your lovemaking is getting a little stale?If you think your lovemaking has become a bit ‘ordinary’ or you just want to make it even better than it already is then read the 500 Lovemaking Tips and give your partner moments to remember.
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August 27, 2009 by Admin
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If you have to live with a sexless marriage you know that it can quickly start to impact virtually every aspect of the relationship you have with your spouse. Many women find themselves married to a man who just loses all interest in intimacy. At first it may be easy to overlook because you internally believe that it will all work itself out. When it doesn’t and months and months pass without any sex it will make you start to question whether the relationship is something you want to continue to pursue. If you love your husband and you want to ensure your marriage becomes as passion filled as it once was, there are steps you can take right now.
Talking to your husband about intimacy or the lack of it when you live with a sexless marriage may actually be the worst possible thing you can do. Many men tend to pull back even more if they feel they are being put on the spot about anything very personal. If you approach your husband and start talking about how much you miss the intimate dynamic of your relationship he may feel cornered and guilty. It may cause him to create even more emotional distance between the two of you so it’s not advisable. It’s much more effective to work at developing a way of creating more closeness between you two which in turn may reignite his interest in intimacy.
There are several ways you can do this in a non-threatening way. Many women who live with a sexless marriage just don’t have any one-on-one time with their spouse anymore. If you two are constantly doing things with your children as a family and you don’t focus on one another as a couple, that’s part of the problem. It’s easy to put aside some time together. You can do things like go for a walk, rent a movie to watch at home or take a picnic lunch together. You just need to make an effort to create some couple time with him. During that time don’t be too forward. Subtle gestures like reaching for his hand or putting your arm around him may be enough to help the walls he’s built around himself start to come down.
Specific things you say and do can encourage natural responses within your husband that make him crave to be intimate with you. Saying or doing the wrong thing will only worsen the problem and can lead to your husband feeling emotionally detached from you. Find out what you need to be doing to help your husband regain his desire for you from this Helpful Site
Most couples struggle with discussing the issue of a sexless marriage and as a result, nothing ever changes and the wife becomes more and more frustrated. You can help your husband rediscover his desire for you. Don’t waste another day wishing your intimate life was more fulfilling, change it now.
You don’t have to leave love to fate or chance. If you are tired of waiting for him to fall hopelessly in love, there are things you can do to make it happen now. Find out right now what you need to do to capture his heart forever.
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August 27, 2009 by Admin
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Men and women both should be aware that there are a lot of different female orgasm secrets that are practically guaranteed to bring a woman to the ultimate in sexual bliss.
In this article you will discover female orgasm secrets that are very powerful and at the same time very easy to do.
Female Orgasm Secrets (These Are Almost Too Easy!)
One of the biggest challenges or complaints that a lot of women face when it comes to having an orgasm is in the fact that they find sex to be uncomfortable primarily because their partner has failed to sufficiently arouse them enough to experience the heightened pleasure that comes during sex.
What this basically means is that sexual foreplay is a an extremely important part of the female orgasm as quality foreplay is going to provide her with the necessary lubrication that is going to make sex much more enjoyable for her in all ways.
Once you learn that spending quality time on gently caressing her entire body, teasing her, and touching the less erogenous zones on her body before moving on to clitoral and vaginal stimulation will do more to giving her mind blowing orgasms you will quickly discover that this is perhaps the most powerful female orgasm secret of them all.
The next female orgasm secret has to do with your ability to arouse her and more importantly heighten her arousal beyond the peak that she thinks that she has.
A very simple and effective way of doing this is by applying a high quality female arousal gel underneath the hood of her clitoris after you have heightened her arousal state through a variety of different sexual foreplay techniques.
In the end, once you learn to take your time during any lovemaking activity you will find that it is truly the most powerful of female orgasm secrets.
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August 26, 2009 by Admin
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If the stresses of modern life have left your married life dull, uninspiring, cold and in need of a desperate makeover, it’s time to take action before it’s too late.
Tantra is an ancient Indian practice through which sex, sexuality, awareness and pleasure become the tools to reach unity between lovers and the universe. One particular Tantric exercise, called Maithuna, is one important tool to experience a deep, profound and powerful union and intimacy with your spouse.
Now I’m sure you’re wondering what exactly Maithuna is?
Maithuna refers to the process of yogic sexual union. In other words – the process of uniting one or more things into one entity. To prepare for Maithuna, the couple should prepare the room in a sensual and inviting way. Get out the candles, prepare some relaxing cushions, light your aromatherapy burner, put on some soothing music, and prepare some tasty nibbles. Bathe separately or together and put on some light clothing or robes. Take the time to enjoy each other’s company; talk about the day’s events (focusing on the positives!), complement each other and simply enjoy the moment.
The aim of this exercise is deep yet gentle union. Start by building your sensual arousal through light touching and stroking of the lover. Men should visualize the Yoni (Vagina) in all it’s majestic glory, and women should visualize the lingham (penis) as firm and hard. This further increases arousal.
With the man aroused, he should now enter the female slowly but firmly, making sure that the parties are facing each other. The ideal position for this exercise is one in which the man is seated cross-legged and the female sits on top of him, wrapping her legs around his waist. Initially the female should gently milk the man, and the man should move slowly. Do this for about 5 – 10 minutes. Now both parties should remain still and continue with an intimate visualization exercise.
Both the man and the woman should visualize red energy around their first chakra (or energy centre) located around the genitals. Imagine this red sexual energy slowly intensifying and then merging into the partners energy centre. Slowly imagine this red sexual energy moving up the energy centers along the spine, through the throat, forehead, and up to the top of the head. Visualize pink and gold heart energy moving from your heart into your lover’s heart in a complete and continuous circuit. After about 15 – 20 minutes look gently into your lover’s eyes and deeply connect with them. No words are required, as the intense feelings and union will transcend the spoken word.
Now simply rest, continue on to more stimulation or remain in this state for as long as both desire.
WARNING : The exercise is very powerful!
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August 25, 2009 by Admin
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You want to be able to give your man pleasure like he has never experienced before. You want to give him the best oral sex of his life. Unfortunately, you are so nervous when it comes to doing this. You have no idea what you are doing. If you are a woman who doesn’t know how to give a guy oral sex, then you need some advice.
Giving your man pleasure orally shouldn’t give you this much anxiety. It should be an exciting time for you as well because you know that you are giving him pleasure. Also, when you are nervous, you don’t perform at your best. He can tell that you are uncomfortable and it makes the whole experience for him less than pleasant. It is time that you changed your outlook and that you started to give great oral sex to your man tonight.
If you want to give great oral sex to your man, then there are a few things that you can do. For example, just because it is oral sex doesn’t mean you can only use your mouth to stimulate him. You can stroke the shaft of his member with your hand and only use your mouth on the tip. It still feels amazing for him and it gives you more control and power over the situation. Also, you don’t have to be gentle with him. You can go hard and fast on him since that is what he wants. Change up your speed and grip and you will certainly turn his world upside down.
You want to please your man by stimulating him with oral sex. You want him to crave your touch throughout the day. To find out more about how to give a man great oral sex, including what not to do, visit this Helpful Site!
Giving a man pleasure orally shouldn’t be this difficult or intimidating. You can become better in bed and give him plenty of mind blowing orgasms. If you want to become the best lover he has ever had then you need to learn the secret today so you can use it tonight.
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August 23, 2009 by Admin
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Since you’ve probably been making love with each other for a number of years and wonder why you need to read an article about love-making, you may be in for a few surprises if you do.
There might be a few things that you’ve forgotten along the way and there might be a few things that you might want to try that are new.
So here goes a few love making tips just for you…
1. Make time for love and romance. Time can certainly slip away from you and you can put love making on the back burner, figuring you’ll get to it when things calm down. If you’re like most people, you have to make time for what’s important in your life. If intimate time with your partner is important to you, make time for it. If being spontaneous never seems to work out, schedule a “love date” and then don’t allow “life” to get in the way.
2. If you don’t feel like making love, say so, but be honest with your partner and yourself why you don’t feel like it. Sounds simple but sometimes it isn’t. Very often, physical ailments-real or imagined-are allowed to interfere with being intimate. Sometimes you just are too tired and love making is the furthest thing from your mind. Whatever the case, be honest with your partner and then make a “date” when you know that you’ll feel better or have more time to devote to each other. Don’t use the old “I have a headache” excuse when you are really feeling disconnection from your partner. Deal with the issue and you’ll feel better.
3. Focus on each other and not on the kids or your work. Clear your mind from extraneous thoughts, worries and fears when you come together for love-making. If it isn’t possible to do that, tell your partner that you need some time and then take a walk to clear your head. You may need to talk about some problem or clear up some issue with your partner. Do it and then focus on how much you love each other.
There are many other things you can do to create more passion in your love making and increase your connection. It takes learning some new skills and creating some new ways of being together.
For more information on how you can put the fire into your love life check out:500 LOVEMAKING TIPS
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